How fast things can change.
I apologize for not updating lately. But in light of all that has happened, you deserve an update now.
Last Wednesday night, two of us, Erik and Diane, were hit by a car. It was raining, and the car hydroplaned, and they - standing on the sidewalk, waiting to cross the road - connected with the car's back end as it spun out and into the light post. The rest of the group was about two hundred yards away, up the street and around the corner. They'd taken the long way to see if they could hail a cab. Had the whole group followed Erik and Diane, they likely would have all been hit.
Diane escaped with some bad sprains, scrapes and a couple of stitches. She remained in the hospital until yesterday evening, when her mother, who'd flown in yesterday afternoon, picked her up. She's back in the apartment now; her mother is staying at a hotel relatively close by.
We donated blood for Erik on Friday and Saturday. His pelvis is broken, and he was bleeding internally in 3 places. The doctors managed to close two of the places, before discovering the third, which thankfully stopped bleeding on its own sometime on Friday. They'll go in for a fourth operation when he's strong enough. He'd gone through 30 litres of blood by Friday night, the last I heard. We are hearing now that he will likely remain in the ICU until after we've left, on 29 April, which breaks my heart. I don't want to leave Athens without seeing him. He is stable, now, at least.
The women in the Athens Centre - Dimitra, Vassia, Katja, Nina and especially Rosemary and her daughter, Anthea, have been a force of nature. They are like our surrogate family here, quite literally, and for the first 48 hours I don't think they got more than two dozen hours of sleep between all of them. They've been constantly there, for Erik, for his parents, who arrived on Friday morning, for Diane, and for us.
Tonight we are having a potluck dinner. We'd been talking about it for a while, but this solidified it. We've invited Erik's parents, Diane's mother, all of the women from the Athens Centre, and some of our more favorite instructors. It's a way of saying thank you, for everything.
It's amazing how quickly things can change, isn't it? My entire experience here - and indeed, my purpose - has shifted. It has for all of us. Before I found out Thursday morning, I had planned to spend the day going to bookstores, and planned to visit museums and do research for my upcoming papers over the weekend. Although several of us did go to bookstores, and clothing stores, on Thursday, in order to
do something while we waited for news, I found myself instead visiting hospitals, and being with the group - we didn't really want to be alone, we found - and escaping, when I did want to, into a pretty cool
paperback. Last night I did finally pick up Aristotle's
Nicomachean Ethics, and while I certainly found it easier to read than Plato's
Republic, I still found it hard to focus. While I know that some people can throw themselves into work and let that distract them, I've found that that doesn't work so well for me. I keep thinking about Erik, and then when I do, I have to concentrate on not
worrying about Erik. He doesn't need worry. He needs light.
How fast things change. John Lennon supposedly once said that life is what happens when you're making other plans. Before I left the party upstairs on Wednesday night, Erik hugged me goodbye. "See you tomorrow, Carrie," he said, and smiled.
Next weekend, three of us are going to Rome. Erik was thinking about coming with us. Meghan and Jess and I (with thanks to my dear mum, for planting the seed) are going to take pictures of ourselves in front of statues (we'll be sneaky; they don't like folks to pose), holding signs saying things like "Handsome, but not as good as you", or "You could beat David any day", and then create a slideshow and leave it on Erik's computer for him to find. We figure he'll like it.
Going back to class tomorrow is going to be tough. We've had five days off. We were supposed to go on a field trip on Friday, but that was postponed. Obviously. Fortunately we have Archaeology and then Byzantine History tomorrow - both of which should be much easier to handle than Philosophy, for reasons I won't mention publicly on this blog.
The fact that we have a little over three weeks left is rather mind blowing. I am so used to thinking in terms of months that the suddenly fast-approaching departure date is more than a little daunting. For the past several mornings I've had dreams of leaving, or being home and forgetting something here. It's been weird. I had a pretty tough bout of homesickness right after Ireland (which seems like ages ago), but now, after this - and after we have come together so strongly as a
group - I find myself very reluctant to leave Greece, and the sort of suspended reality that Greece has offered me for the past three months.
All things cycle. Nothing ever truly dies.